I’m happy with not having a primary in my life, and have been using the terminology secondary to refer to my lover(s).
But this seems inadequate, as if my choice to not have a primary is somehow lesser, which is not how I feel.
In this thread there is a reference to alternative terms, domestic and feral. I really like these, and will start to use feral as the form of poly I am interested in exploring. Does any one else relate to these terms, I’ve never come across them before?
BTW, I REALLY like the idea of being feral with my poly lovers 🙂