I hope that whatever happened was not done under sad circumstances and will not leave a bad taste in your mouth in regards to this whole lifestyle.

You are young and there is so much ahead of you. Whatever the case continue to educate yourself on everything. The resources these days are vast and detailed. For starters, have a stroll through many of the groups here. Of course there is always the chance of running into drama. That cannot be helped.

And above all, do not get suckered into a M/s relationship that degrades and isolates you from family and friends. That is a situation best avoided.