Thank you so much for your suggestions. I don’t know why it didn’t occur to me to make my own cock ring – I’m making everything else but the dildo, why not make that, too? Hell, maybe I’ll make him some anal beads out of synthetic rope to play with while I’m setting the rest of this up. I’m a rope lover, although like I said, I’m usually the one being tied up. I think he’ll enjoy it just because it’s something new and different, a sensation he’s not familiar with already, I’m just worried about his patience. While I can sit for hours and enjoy the feel of rope running over my body while it’s being turned into something beautiful and/or functional, he may not enjoy sitting still while waiting for me to finish so we can start the activities he’s interested in.

He doesn’t know if he’s a rope lover, but after discovering what we can do together with it, I hope he’ll learn to enjoy it, if not love it, the way I do. Do you know of any online video’s, or how to guides, or links you could send me to so I can see how this is done on a boy. I know a harness is pretty basic, but I’ve only ever done harnesses on girls, so I’m not 100% how to make his so it goes around his cock without constricting him, and I’ve never done a strap-on harness before. Really, any link or reference you could provide would be appreciated more than I can say. All my books are in storage right now, and I’m not quite sure where to go online to find this sort of thing without sifting through porn.

I feel like maybe I’ve offended people by asking such a rudimentary question, or did I go about this in an improper way? I don’t really spend a lot of time on Fetlife, so my etiquette might be lacking. I posted to two groups, this one, and another that has 29 thousand members, and you are the only person who’s responded. Did I go about this wrong, or is it just that it’s such a simple thing that people figured I should work it out on my own online?

Regardless, thank you so much for your help, Louloup_belle. I very much appreciate your input, and the ideas you’ve given me. They’re helping me form a vision in my mind of how this will work when it’s done, now I just need to figure out how to put it together. Your suggestions have added quite a few practical layers between “conception” and “completion,” and I appreciate it very much. Thank you for taking the time to read and respond. If it’s okay, I’d like to add you as a friend. Then you can see the pictures of him in his harness when I’m done with it.