New to this group and saw this post.
I can say my love/sub has been chained up not gagged tho in the bedroom when the plumber came. I shut the door and left her in there as I went around with him. Every so often I left the plumber to check that my spread eagled toy was ok and still safe. she was greatly turned on even though it was one of the first times we had played and she was terrified.
Look forward to chatting with you all again soon.