#1 rule: COMMUNICATION
#2 – MORE COMMUNICATION
#3 – have some sort of “safe words” or “gesture” or something to be able to pull the eject handle in ANY situation. then pull yourselves away and COMMUNICATE as to what happened – why you ejected yourselves, etc….
#4 – did i mention COMMUNICATION?
know that even my b/f & myself after 4 years still have rules & change them. we do this with ease due to communication. what once was a hard limit before – may not be today, or in the future…..