July 10, 2014 at 8:45 pm #2345
While sitting in at local Munch Group night the topic of Flogging came up. Among the submissive it seemed to be the most popular form of play ( their eyes light up and some smiled ear to ear). While the few Doms there seemed to say ,ahh it’s ok. I was wondering in this group if the feelings were the same? Do Dom/me’s tend to feel the same? “it’s ok” and how many getting flogged find it is one of their favorite play time activities?July 10, 2014 at 8:56 pm #2351
Flogging allows a huge range and variety of feels and intensities because of different materials and styles and can be anywhere on the stingy to thuddy range, I’ve seen styles designed to draw blood and works really well as a warm up for other activities, so I expect that’s a lot of why it’s so well loved by subs/bottoms. I know I love to be flogged. I would expect wielding floggers is not as wide a spectrum, I have my own style and my selection of implements, and most bottoms can take being flogged for a really long time depending on how the flogging is done so part of it may be that a lot of the Doms/tops get tired of doing it long before most subs/bottoms reach their limits. Just an opinion.July 16, 2014 at 5:10 pm #2480
As a sub, and, actually only recently having discovered floggers, I have to say they’re also my favorite form of impact/pain play, with Sir. Sir enjoys having control over me, being able to dominate, and have me submit, and release control to him; I’m more able to withstand ‘more’ from a flogger, so it lets me surrender more control, and submit more to him; Which tics boxes for both of us. Floggers are an entire sensual experience too; I love the smell (leather), the feel of it being gently trailed over my breasts, and skin, the little stingy short sharp ‘hits’, on my body, I adore multiple thuddy hits, on buttons, thighs,breasts, etc, and can I think probably be flogged, with the thuddy type, of hit, for longer than Sir would want to doso; but he’s in control of it, and as its so multiple in the affects a flogger cna induce, he can edge me towards subspace, with the thuddy ones, then ‘draw back’, with a few stingy hits, before returning to thuddy; or, of course, switching to a paddle, cane, etc. I adore the flogger too, used in warm up; being caressed with it, gradually building up severity of strikes, etc…July 16, 2014 at 5:17 pm #2482
Well, flogging is one of my favorite things and I am on the swinging end, but I love it for the reactions it elicits ooohs/aahs and squeals not so much the workout. LOL However, I am not your typical dom I have a wide variety of swings and throwing styles and an even larger collection of floggers since I started making them years ago. 😉 I can and have had entire flogging scenes with Pet, I can and have flogged him for hour+ at a time.
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