July 10, 2014 at 8:44 pm #2344
You may not call it play, but I do, so that’s the term of choice.
All that we do calls for different levels of skill. If you post something knowledge based that is geared for a specific group, aim correctly please.
If it’s; Novice, Experience, Advanced, or Ninja, please say so in the title of you post.
This will cut down on the OMG! You can’t do thaaat! threads that lose quality to quantity.
For the new folks, Please Do Not Attempt things that are radical or totally new to you on people- try a pillow first. Please understand that there are people on this group that have been doing what they do, maybe even longer than you’ve been alive. Some things will seem scary or odd or bizarre to you, just keep reading and see how it goes.
Everyone, please remember, you do not have to attend every argument you’re invited to.July 10, 2014 at 8:48 pm #2347
sadly i did not see this before the party on Saturday. I was stupid, i made a stupid mistake and tried flogging someone (i thought that it was simple. nothing complex… one flogger with a whip motion… so i ended up hitting my play partners kidney.) i stopped imminently.
what i gained from this experience was to read talk and do a lot of research before acting/playing
So my question is this, what do people think of theses pages?
http://www.pamelasplayroom.co.uk/flogger_advice.htmJuly 16, 2014 at 5:04 pm #2478
Most of what is in that link is more or less what I’d say myself.
With a few exceptions.
Hands and feet. Nuns never have a problem hitting the mark with a little stick. lol Bastinado is quite fun. When I have a guy on his knees and his feet are turned up, they’re fair game far as I’m concerned. You don’t have to worry about your aim in this position because it’s already on the floor. The surface of the floor will prevent wraparound. Likewise if the person is on a bed. Just be careful of the tendon behind the heel.
I mostly do a moderate swipe or two now and then, realizing they have jobs and have to stand and walk. lol But if someone wants a more harsh treatment, I’d be perfectly willing to give it to them. I have numerous implements that would suit, including canes, coaxial cable, paddles and several kinds of flogger.
Kidneys…this is going to depend on the person and their own tolerance and the implements used. Coaxial, yes, I’m definitely going to be very careful where I strike. But a regular ol’ flogger on a big boy or big girl isn’t so much a problem. If they have layers of fat around the middle, that’s going to insulate the kidneys, and gives a wider range to flog on without as much worry. I can employ more follow through and really drag the flogger down their back in the swing.
How small is too small? How big is big enough? Talk to the person while flogging and ask. People I play with know I expect them to answer me honestly. If they don’t, I’ll never play with them again.
Breasts and more care. Eh. I’m just finishing up healing from a breast paddling I took two weeks ago. If the bottom understands what they’ll have to deal with after, and for how long they’ll be dealing with it, how much more care is rather up to them. EW will flog my tits just as hard as he does my back. The “care” he takes is to not misfire and whack me on the neck and face. lol And I take care as well, and use my arms to cover and take any errant swings. No one is perfect. Taking tails to the ear is a hazard if one wishes to be a whipping post. lol
She doesn’t cover canes, but I have a lot to say on those too. lol
Using a pillow. Absolutely. But I go a bit farther in telling a novice flogger wielder to have someone lie on a sheet on the floor. Trace their shape in marker. Note the elbows, the knees, the ankles, mark the soft tissue below the ribs. Then drape the sheet over the bed with a couple pillows under it to approximate a shape. Drape it over the comfy chair to see how everything changes. Drape it over the back of the sofa (one of our favorite places) with the pillows.
Hope this is helpful.
July 16, 2014 at 5:09 pm #2479
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I find flogging on the breasts so good; Although, at the moment, Sir’s a bit worried about the accidental missing, and landing on my face etc; Though he’s usually very damn accurate, Actually I find my breasts can take about as much with the flogger, if not more, than most other parts of the body, I.E., back and buttocks thighs etc, the main sort of areas I guess…
July 16, 2014 at 5:19 pm #2483
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I need a lady who can wield a whip to flog me so that I can roll the pipe away from me. If you can help, contact me.
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