March 2, 2015 at 10:23 pm #3058
Does anyone else use being flogged or flogging as a way to relieve stress? I always seem to be at such a peaceful place when i’m being flogged. Things have been so crazy and stressful for me lately and I would love nothing more to be flogged. Unfortunately I don’t have a partner to help me out =0(March 2, 2015 at 10:25 pm #3059
Flogging is the absolute best stress reliever! When I am stressed, a flogging can reduce me to tears and even to a total break down into sobbing. When it’s over and Sir is holding me, I feel totally relaxed, all my muscles devoid of tension. When I’m not stressed, the world just disappears and I can just feel, just enjoy the sensations, just feel floaty too sometimes. It’s wonderful!
@CelestialSilence Good luck in finding a partner to deliver the flogging you need!March 2, 2015 at 10:29 pm #3060
Thanks everyone! I think I need the extra luck! I haven’t been very successful on my own -_-
I have never tried flogging someone, mainly because I haven’t known anyone who enjoyed being flogged or was willing to try it. While I prefer to be on the receiving end, i’m a people pleaser… so if I knew they would enjoy it, i’m fairly sure I would enjoy it! As far as flogging myself… it’s not the same. I think there’s just something about giving up control of the situation that helps me to relax and feel at ease.March 3, 2015 at 12:34 am #3061
Once we found the right tool for the job (More like a dust brush instead of something like a cat toy on a stick), and now that I have the technique that my wife seems to enjoy quite a bit: I have found it to be a great way for me to decompress. Her reaction when I get it right is something I enjoy (as does she) quite a bit!March 3, 2015 at 12:39 am #3062
oh yes… after all the pain and a little bit of sweet after care, one would feel light and stress relieved. i love giving and receiving a flogging session. downside is you begin to be an endorphin/adrenaline junkie so you would always crave for more.
i am somewhat lucky to have found someone who is able to flog me to the point i would cry in pain. but our sessions are like limited to twice a month because of our distance. but nevertheless i am lucky considering i am in a conservative country where bdsm activities would really be frowned on.
i tried flogging myself… but it didn’t really give me the kick i wanted.. clamping my nipples or piercing my legs with needles worked much better.March 3, 2015 at 12:49 am #3063
Any kind of session is good for stress as it creates a more immediate stress. Being flogged puts stress on you as in pain, possibly embarrassment (depending on the condition), discomfort. This stress overrides all other stresses going on. When this stress stops, and the endorphins are flowing, all other stresses go away as well.
This is why I love this. I do and teach meditation, and it is good for stress, and keeping stress away. But if one is stressed, it is hard to get down and meditate.
Flogging immediately takes your attention away from your problems by giving you new, immediate problems. Once it is over, the other problems while not going away permanently, weigh a lot less on you.
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