I met my current partner at a play party. We would both there with our partners at the time and we all became friends. Overtime he and I grew together as we grew apart from the people we had previously been with….

The previous 2 partners I met, I met through my volunteer work. One thing about volunteering is, you know whomever you meet will at least have the same cause in common with you.

On POF I made sure I put a statement about being on the right side of the slash and left it at that so if they knew what it meant, we also had that in common, but if they didn’t know, then it was just something I had to figure out a bit more about.

Hmmm I honestly seems I have mvet more Playmates on Okcupid.com than any of the other sites at the moment.

Not sure this helps anybody else, but I met my partner at the fitness center. I had just finished my workout, was sweating like a pig, and this really hot guy came right up to me out of nowhere and said, “You’re probably the kind of girl who needs to be tied up from time to time.” I blushed a million shades of red and quietly said “yes”. Turned out my girlfriend (who knew my interests) had set the whole thing up when she realized he had been checking me out for quite a while. Maybe the generic lesson is to keep your friends informed of your interests.