This wasn’t the first first, since I tied up babysitters and such as a child. However, this was the first REAL feeling bondage thing.

I went over to my girlfriends house with a sack of rope and some tape that I had. However I left it in the car instead taking a roll of medical tape with me hidden in my sock under my jeans. We watched tv for a time and when she went to the bathroom I put the plan in action. I got the bag from the car and then hid in the guest bedroom next to the bathroom. She finished up and then left. I then ran up behind her, grabed her right arm and pulled it behind her while pushing right foot into the back of her knee, thus knocking her to the ground. I then twisted her arm until she gave me the left on and having a firm hold of them both I pulled the tape out and taped her wrists together. Then taped her knees together and then her feet. From there It was easy enough to drag her to her room. She had a four post bed with a metal head board and the plan was to tie her to it. (So yes there was pre planning on my part)

Putting her onto the bed I then used tape from the bag to tie her elbows together loosely, then I freed her wrists and through much struggling was able to get her wrists infront of her and tie them loosly, at this point I cut the tape and then tied her wrists much better. Then I tied them to the head board with the knots well out of reach. Her legs were easier, having the knees tied I made my rope cuff tie (french bowline will do) on her ankles and had them loosly tied to the ends of the foot board which once the tape was cut on the knees was easily tightened to keep them apart. From there play time could and did begin.

Important things, we knew eachother for awhile before this and I knew she was okay wiith it. I was top but wouldn’t say dom, and because her shouting stop really would have worked we didn’t have an offical safeword… This was sorta a test thing for us so things were slow and honestly there was a good deal of talk while everything was happening. Aaaannnd finally, I had safety sissors. Also my rope was solid braid nylon at… 1/4th in I belive.

Anything else you want to know, just ask.

Mine was a bit of both. Premeditated, but I requested it to be a surprise. He had set up the bed with straps, and at some point during the week, he was supposed to capture me, take me to his home, tie me down while I struggled and fought back, just to make it exciting. After I was bound, I was punished when I struggled, either slapped or choked. We had a safe word to ensure trust and practiced it before. I must admit, it was the greatest experience of my life.

My first session went great, maybe even better! Both of us were really into each other; we had a very good connection. There was total trust in each other which was important. I was the dom and his safeword was ‘blue’ which was simple enough.

Since it was our first time not much heavy bondage toys were used. We used basic handcuffs, a blindfold and a vibrator. That was pretty much it. It wasn’t boring at all, no rushing either. We wanted to make it last and made sure we all were having a good time.